Monday, June 9

When I Didn't Make It

The second time I tried out for cheerleading, I didn't make it. It's a crappy feeling when you're in a room with your peers and the coach reads "the list." As she rattles off the names, you get more and more flushed in the face that she hasn't read yours. Well, for me, at least they read the list at the end of the school day. When I got home, to our driveway, I saw my mom waiting for me in the doorway. I ran to get to her, and cried as she hugged me. That day, there was the heaviest weight of rejection in my backpack. Thankfully my mom was there to help with it. Did you ever not make it? I think rejection in our past is what God uses (thru us) to love the rejected in our present. (BTW - my mom didn't make cheerleading when she was a young girl either).

7 Comments Here:

Anonymous said...

I grew up in a family of boys. I was never allowed to try the things they got to do but I was always brought along to "watch." Those experiences equaled rejection for me. I know this is the reason I have such a strong personality-I was shaped by these experiences to be bold enough to speak up and jump in. I believe everyone deserves a chance "to try" whatever they want. In ministry, I love drawing people out, challenging them to "try" and cheering them to the finish line for God. This life is a blast!
Mel N.

Sara said...

I felt rejected when my mom left when I was 12. But that circumstance in my life did not and does not define me but God used it to make me stronger, more independent and now I know that i can rely on my Christian brothers and sisters who will not reject me but lift me up when I need them. I will never know why but its okay because God taught me how to forgive and gave me a wonderful family.

Anonymous said...

Loved being captain of cheerleading in H.S. one yr., but when I didn't make it as Homecoming Queen, I was devastated. My grandma had passed away earlier that morning & I just assumed I'd be an "absentee queen"
To this day, I can't believe I rejected GOD for so long! Guess it took me longer to mature....& still maturing...[@43] FOREVER Grateful!!
janette

Pris said...

You're right Heather! There's a burdain in my heart for the rejected...all because I've been.
Good to know that our God never, ever, EVER rejects us...and that His arms are always open for us to run to when others do.

Her said...

Mel - I grew up in a fam of boys too. That explains alot! Now we have chipotle and strong personalities in commmon! : )

Sara - I am sorry that happened to you; I respect you that it hasn't defined you. What a beautiful comment, thank you for sharing it with us.

Janette - GREAT point: we are rejected by many, but how many times have WE rejected HIM? Thanks for shedding great light on this.

Pris - You are SO right, it is not something God is ever capable of doing to us. God Bless u, girl

Jo Ann said...

hi! jumping over from momblogs. i just want to say that i love your site. it makes me feel the presence of The Almighty and makes me thankful for how blessed I am. Keep up the good work and continue touching other people's lives.

Her said...

Hello Jo Ann. Thank you so much for stopping by and for your kind words. And now, I shall swing by yours! God bless you.