Thursday, February 14

Unkind Words

"You'll never make it in Florida. When you get there and those people learn the real you, you'll have to move back."
An unkind quote from an unkind friend, just weeks before I moved all by myself to South Florida.
That was 11 years ago.
I'm still here.
What others may intend for bad; God WILL do for good.
I'm so glad that her criticism didn't get me down. Cause God used it to light the fire under my butt and set me out on a journey of a lifetime.

Someday, I hope I get the chance to thank her (really...I do)

10 Comments Here:

Holly said...

I remember when you first came down, I still see you beating Corey at Playstation! They still call you "sister" too. Glad u didn't listen to the haters, they were just jealous you were coming to beautiful F.L.A.! Your children will thank you for raising them here, just ask Corey who is now in your old hometown,:-O

Jeffrey D said...

yeah we've been here since 1985 and never looked back..and never regreted it. sometimes I miss it but only in memories..

Her said...

Holly, you were the opposite of this girl. You gave me hope (in friendship) when I got here. Thank you.

Jeff - Thanks for stopping by! Appreciate you, man

Arturo de la Mora said...

The only possibility to not succeed... is to quit... Congrats! :)

chad said...

That comment wasn't about Florida it was about you personally. It could have been Argentina for all they cared that you were moving to. When they said, "you won't make it" they weren't talking about this place. Instead they were slamming you when they said, "when they learn the real you, you will have to move back."

That's pretty hateful. I'm glad it gave you courage not to protect yourself relationally and put up walls for fear of being rejected. You do owe them thanks.

They would have said the same hateful thing no matter where you went.

Her said...

Arturo - GREAT quote!

Chad - thank you for sharing your pastor's heart with me. You put a little salve on the wound.

Anonymous said...

AS YOUR MOM...I CAN SEE WHERE IT WAS JUST SIMPLY GODS WILL ....NO DOUBT ..THE LORD CONFIRMS HIS WILL IN OUR LIFES...HE CERTAINLY DID THAT IN YOUR SITUATION ..MANY PEOPLE WILL TELL YOU MANY DIFFERENT THINGS ..BUT WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT IS KNOWING YOUR SHEPARDS VOICE DURING THIS JOURNEY ON EARTH ..HE KNOWS WHATS BEST .. DON'T YA JUST LOVE HIM ?

Heredes said...

totally unrelated .... thanks for that book ! read it twice -- once alone and once out loud -- Moochas gracias

-H

Anonymous said...

Thank you for the encouragement as I am going through that right now. I partner with you as we prove her wrong! Chris Brown

Her said...

Heredes - I'm honored that you read it. It's a classic to pass on to Heredes Jr. someday.

Chris - Keep your glimpse on the unkind folk....keep your gaze on God. Glad you guys are coming....welcome!